Performing tarpan and pind daan during Pitru Paksha is considered one of the most sacred duties in Hinduism. Traditionally, these rituals have been carried out by male members of the family. However, in modern times, a common question arises- Can women also perform these rites for their ancestors? Religious texts and beliefs do provide clear answers.
Sita's Example in Ramayana
The Garuda Purana and Valmiki Ramayana mention that women are not restricted from performing rituals like shradh, tarpan and pind daan. The most well-known example is from the Ramayana itself.
When Lord Rama and Lakshman were unable to find materials for their father King Dasharatha's shradh, Mother Sita took the responsibility. On the banks of the Phalgu River in Gaya, she created a ball of sand and offered it as pind daan for her father-in-law. This episode is often cited as proof that women too have the right to perform these sacred rites.
What Garuda Purana Says
The Garuda Purana also lists certain situations where women can take up this responsibility.
In the absence of male members: If no man is present in the family, a woman can perform shradh and tarpan.
Daughter's duty: If a person has no son, the daughter has the right to perform these rituals for her father.
Single women: Women living alone, without male relatives, can perform the shradh of their ancestors themselves.
The Essence of the Ritual
The scriptures emphasize that the real essence of shradh and tarpan lies in devotion and purity of heart- not in gender. Whether a man or woman performs the ritual, what matters is the sincerity and faith with which it is done.
In short, Hinduism does not forbid women from fulfilling their duty towards ancestors. It is a personal and spiritual act, open to anyone who wishes to honor and pray for the peace of their forefathers' souls.
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